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writes: IM not sure what to think,ive been with my fella for 4 years and its not been plain sailing,but we always seem to sort out our diffrences and make up,these last few months have been diffrent hes been distant and arrogant towards me,without reason,upon till lastnigh i never thought any reason hed be cheating,i over heard a phone call his son telling a person his dad was out when in fact we were at his home.why say this if your not hiding something or someone in your secret life?i need help here good advice pls which way do i turn? Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You are reading to much into this. No evidence that he is cheating.
You need to seek advice and councelling about your low self esteem otherwise your paranoia will drive you nuts.
If you guy has given you no reason to doubt him, you need to work on your trust issues. You are the one who is hurting so work on that a little.
Good luck x
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 OK, his sone told someone his dad was out. He was actually at home so this makes him a cheater. Are you assuming this was code language for the lover on the other end of the phone call. You'll never know but you'll continue to assume the worst until you ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): i think that you should just confront him because this worrying is driving you crazy
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