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writes:I was going to sit in the computer lab to get some work done, and I saw this guy that I had a huge crush on from last semester, sitting at the piano and singing. I did not say anything to him because he was talking to this guy from his class...I was sure he needed to concentrate. I ignored his singing and put on my headphones. He did not see me walk in the room but I figured he would not talk to me because hasn't since this semester started this Aug. 17th...When he was done practicing, he got up from the piano and walked over to me, and let his fingers slide down my arms, and gave me a hug, I was so surprised that I did not know how to react. I hurt my side trying turn and give him a tigther hug, lol. I wanted to know, why would he hug me if all this time he has not asked about me liking him, said hi to me when he passes me by around school or elsewhere on campus?Then like a day or two later I saw him talking to some girl in the library, Im not sure who she was but I guess the conversation was good.Im so confused...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello,
Time sped up sooner that I thought, I saw him yesterday morning and he really didnt talk to me, he was awkwardly quiet and than this afternoon, he kept messaging this girl back and forth on facebook. I said, to him, hey lover boy, your computer is messing up, and said he didnt care about that computer...dont know why he said that, he seem interestd in this one *rolls eyes*
I told him how I felt about him on fb a while back and he didnt even reply. He gets a lot of emails, but I was mad when he couldnt even write me back.
Then he saw me agian this afternoon and he kept play hitting me, standing close and hovering over me whenever I was busy drawing at the computer. Everytime he would finish playing the piano he would find someway to touch me. He even rested his arm on my head, lol, I just let stay there. I just ignored his hits and when he got close pushd him away. I used to do that to him last semester because I didnt know how to get his attn(the play hitting).
Same ol' same, I guess guys are nothing like girls...or just the guys I like the most dont care for me at all. I might just give up on dating for a couple more years agian...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question*Sigh* alright :-/
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2009):
It could have just been a friendly gesture. Try to get to know him more and see where it leads.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 No one will know why he hugged you. It may have been just an innocent and friendly gesture, without any meaning behind it.
Don't read anything into it. Just take things at face value and put it out of your mind. If he likes you he will let you know.
Good luck at school.
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