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writes:Why would a guy do such a horrible thing? Why would a guy treat you like your the only girl for him in the world and tells you how amazing you are and how much he's in love with you and all the while he's cheating on you behind your back and eventually dump you and say he fell out of love?Why would a guy to that to a good girl that loves him so very much? I don't understand.Thanks..x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): sometimes when people cheat, they deal with the guilt (they KNOW it's wrong) by being extra nice to their partner. or because they are trying to cover up their tracks and just overcompensating that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): Sometimes people do things for all sorts of reasons; crazy reasons, malicious reasons, internal issues, etc, etc. You name the reason, it's been done for that reason.Truthfully, some people don't really know what love is. If you do, then you have a leg up on everyone else you meet, but you will be hurt, like all of us get hurt.My wife cheated on me, we are still together. She knows why now, for years she didn't understand what was going on with her at the time and why she did it, once she began to understand it she felt even worse about the whole thing.She told me that she realized she'd never really known what love meant until she "ruined everything" as she put it, and then she realized what she was destroying, but not why.Realize, we are middle aged, it took her nearly 30 years to realize why she did the things she did, and she's a bright person (parents divorce and their numerous affairs while they were married, child abuse, neglect, rape, etc all combined to make her think that the world worked like this).
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (3 May 2011):
Hi - It sounds like your feeling very hurt by the actions of your now (former?) boyfriend but I think when you meet a man who actually does love you very much you may realise that the way your boyfriend treated you had little to do with love and every thing to do with immaturity and no emotion whats so ever.
Forget this flaky crappy person, he's not worth it and hopefully you'll meet that person I was talking about who will show you how awesome proper love is - it does exist and there are people out there who can give it.
Good luck
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