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writes:Why would a guy go back to a girl who dumped him and leave someone who's interested in him?My BF's best friend dated this girl for only two weeks when she decided she wasn't that interested in him. He was quite upset and we never heard the end of it! So then I set him up with a friend of mine who's a really cool girl. He seemed to like her and they started dating.Then the girl who dumped him comes back, they catch up for lunch and he suddenly dumps my friend!! Well, he just stopped calling her, and she refuses to call him to see what's going on.My friend is a great girl and to make matters worse she slept with him a few days before he dumped her. According to my BF, all his friend ever got to do with the first girl was kiss her. So as you can see my friend's really upset about all this.Why would a guy run like this to someone who dumped him and leave a girl who was interested in him?
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 Thanks guys, this gives me something to work with when I speak with her tonight. I told her as well that she shouldn't have hopped into bed that soon with him. Perhaps she wouldn't be as badly hurt if she hadn't done in.
You all said that he's got stronger feelings for this other girl. I wonder how he got to feel so much in the two weeks they dated?
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reader, devine92  +, writes (11 August 2011):
He still has feelings for the girl who dumped him. When someone dumps someone else, that person's feelings for him/her won't go away overnight. The feelings are still there. When someone breaks up with another, you have to give it time so those feelings can disappear on its own. It seems he started dating again to early and his feelings for his ex still lingered inside of him. So when his ex showed up again, those feelings (not yet gone) came rushing back and he just went with what his heart felt. It's definitely not your friends fault, it's his fault. He had those feelings and he made the decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): Just because someone is a great girl doesn't mean ANY man you set up with her is going to feel those sparks and fall in love. You may have thought she was perfect for him but he certainly didn't think that. Plus men aren't bound to think a girl is that great when she gives up the goods so easily!
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reader, tibob  +, writes (11 August 2011):
 He went back to the other girl who dumped him simply because he loves her. When the girl gave him another chance to be with her, he seized this opportunity as he has feelings for her. He may not have the same feelings for your friend as remember, you presented your friend to him.
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