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writes:ok so i have this new GF and she swears shes the **** in bed and that only two guys have ever made her have an orgasm and it was because she loved them. so wen we have sex i put out all my best moves and stuff and i no im good because every girl im with says im the best they ever had, adn wen we did it i could have sworn she had like 5 of them but she says she didnt. I dnt understand tho, cuz her legs were twitch and her stomach was jumping and she got real wet but she swears to god she never had one. she says she can only have it with people she loves. its crazy cuz my sisters friend pulled the same stunt on me last week but after it was over she came clean and said she did have some but this one swears she never did and i swear it felt like she ahd some big ones.so my question for yall is do u think a female would lie about not having an orgasm and if she did why. please i need some tips or something cuz its freaking frustrating me. ive never been with a girl and not been able to make her orgasmand the craziest part about the situation is last night she even told me nobody has ever done it like me but she still refuses to admit she had an orgasm. I mean im pretty sure she did but i still have that stuck in the back of my mind and until she admits it i wont feel good again
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reader, Alfredo1400 +, writes (24 August 2010):
Alfredo1400 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits ok now. i fuond out she did have one. she says she was fukking wit me so i wouldnt get lazy. she thinks the shits funny im pissed off cuz she told me like 2 weeks later, after making me sweat my ass off like a billion times. this the second time this happens to me but this time i learned my lesson. go wit my gut and dnt listen to wat they say cuz they slick as hell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Haha ever considered that maybe it was the other girls that lied? Young girls will almost always tell their partners that they are the best they've ever had... as well as lying about achieving orgasms.....
It's not until you get older that you find out the truth... trust me I know what I'm talking about... I spent the better part of my early tweenties thinking I was gods gift to women. Then came another 10 years of re-learning and actually getting good at it...
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Wait, DirtBall is right. Women say that EVERY TIME. No realy we do. Most of us. And hes right with the ego thing to. All this is going to your head. She could of been a real bitch and tolled you you where awfull. But she said it the polite way. *no you didnt make me cum, get over it*
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 August 2010):
 "and i no im good because every girl im with says im the best they ever had,"
This statement made me seriously LMAO. Guess what, they all say this. They know it makes you feel like THE MAN!!! It is a way to stroke our ego and make us feel even better. In some cases it may be true, and in others it may be complete BS and they go joke about it to their friends later.
Honestly, you sound like a player because you're talking about sex with multiple women (albeit not at the same time) here. If she did fake not having an orgasm, it's because she knows your reputation and doesn't want to stroke your ego. You sound pretty full of yourself already, maybe she felt the need to deflate your ego a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Kayla00, you can still enjoy sex without orgasming.
But anyway, I don't see why she'd lie or why the'd be any need in lying. The only reasons I can think of is perhaps she's embarrassed about it as you haven't been going out long (I used to get embarrassed to tell my boyfriend I did when we first went out), but I wouldn't lie, of course. OR, she isn't that into you? Maybe she doesn't like you too much so doesn't want you to believe you're great in bed. Hmm, I'm not really sure on this one. I very much doubt she had five orgasms anyway, I'm prettyyy sure she would have told you if you gave her five orgasms as it WOULD be an experience.
Doesn't sound like you guys are close any way, as you slept with someone else not so long ago. Was it a one night stand? Maybe she doesn't LIKE telling men she's had a one night stand with/men she's not so close to they made her achieve an orgasm. She could have strange ways of thinking. But there again, I doubt anyone would lie about such a thing, why don't you just believe her and try next time?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 August 2010):
 I doubt she's lying. She probably just really enjoyed it. Why would you assume she's lying? I've never heard of a woman lying about HAVING one. Faking, sure. But this? What is her motivation? Also if my new boyfriend had slept with someone else right as we started dating I probably wouldn't be too keen on telling the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): It's because most women are liars, kiddo. And any orgasm you could give her will be mercilessly compared to the other two: if it is better she keeps you, otherwise she dumps you. Welcome to a Brave New World.
Bottom line, if you are looking for real love, your search lies elsewhere.
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reader, kayla00 +, writes (20 August 2010):
I'm pretty sure she did, otherwise she would not have enjoyed the sex (as u said she did) .... she is most likely not admitting for the reason of giving u the satisfaction!
My advice to you is to not let it get to you, girls do things like this to sometimes bring dwn a guys self.esteem.
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reader, Jay25  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 You can have twitching of legs and no orgasm, for some girls they can only get one when there is an emotional connection and they can totally let go, no matter how great the sex is, I wouldnt worry though if your doing your best Im sure she is still enjoying it
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reader, zebralove +, writes (20 August 2010):
She probly faked it.
Or probly doesnt want you to feel so special because sounds like you where just a one night stand?
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