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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my on off partner have been together nearly 2 years - we do argue over silly things but always make up. Usually he will not speak to me a few days then get back in touch... We split up last Sunday and he hasn't really spoken to me since. I couldn't stand the silence so I turned up at his place yesterday where after lots of talking it seemed like we had make up. We had sex and I stayed at his. This morning, he was back to being moody and isn't responding to my texts. I don't know what to do and can feel him slipping further and further away... He seemed angry that I turned up at first but then was his old self joking around and talking to me as if nothing had happened. Obviously nobody knows what's going on in his head but by his behaviour does this show he wants me back? I don't know how I should go about getting him back?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 ... aren't you tired yet after two 2 years of ups and downs ons and offs ?...
Ciar says it better , and more diplomatically, but I feel the same :
he does not talk to you, because he is not interested in talking to you. He is still ( relatively ) interested in shagging you, particularly if you chase him down till his doorstep . Sorry, it does not sound like it's more than that.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (15 April 2014):
 I'm not sure how not talking to you could ever be construed as wanting you back. It suggests quite the opposite to me.
If you and your boyfriend break up so often that you can call what you have as an 'on off relationship' then I would suspect he is getting a tired of it all and has lost interest.
He's not as concerned about impressing you. He can go without talking to you, although he's open to a romp in the sack if you show up unannounced on his doorstep.
If you really want to be sure then make no effort to reach him again for the next two weeks. If he still doesn't contact you, his silence is your proof.
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