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writes:To make a long story short, I've always felt very lonely. As a kid my parents moved me around a lot and to different schools and I never really made any friends. High School was pretty bad because I was bullied. I have always been on the chubby side and I'm just very 'average' looking. I've never been a pretty or popular girl. I don't have any siblings, no friends, all of my grandparents have passed on, I don't have any cousins my age, my aunts/uncles all live up north, I've never really had a boyfriend, my parents are always very busy with work, the list can go on forever. I've always seen big families and thought to myself "wow they all seem so happy, why can't I have that?" I've also wondered why I have never seemed to make friends and why I was bullied in school when I tried to.How can I help fix my problem and stop feeling so lonely all of the time? Is this even a normal problem to be having?
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (15 April 2014):
 maybe look at a church to meet new friends , and maybe meet a boyfriend . that should be a place to help with the feeling of being lonely.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (15 April 2014):
Maybe you should talk with your parents about how you feel and ask if you could go see a counselor or therapist. You may have some social issues. Even if you don't a therapist would be beneficial.
It also sounds like you're too isolated. I've never had trouble making friends or meeting girls, except when my work or schedule isolated me.
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