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writes: why wont he sleep with me???I,ve been seeing my bloke for over 18 months on and off. We split for a short time, 2 months because he kept using arguments as foreplay and that wasn,t my thing. We,ve been in a sexual relationship all the time we,ve been seeing eachother BUT since his brother died and he spent time with his family 'south' he's stopped sleeping with me. We go out do all the usuall couple things etc and we still have sex IN MY LOUNGE!! He just wont spend the night with me and wake up with me the next morning. I'm 42 he's 52 so we're not kids playing 'freedom' games, I dont sleep around and neither does he. come on blokes tell me why he's not spending the night!!! I'm starting to feel a bit like a tart just 'doing it' and him going home to his flat!He doesn't seem to have a commitment problem, he loves me (i think)i love him so i dont see the problem. Help
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Are you sure that there is no other relationship that he has to show up for? If you were apart for two months, it's possible that there could be someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): I've got a few ideas, but there's no guarantee I'll be anywhere near the mark!
He might be uncomfortable in your bed and prefers his own mattress.
Maybe you snore?
He might be afraid that his flat will be burgled when he's out all night.
Your alarm clock jangles his nerves?
He doesn't like waiting half an hour for the bathroom?
He dislikes being apart from his teddy bear?
Maybe the best course of action would be to ask him!
Phil
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