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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HiTheres a boy "mark" who i used to like and we hooked up once but it didn't work out so we stopped talking and avoided each toher for a while.Bout a year ago we started talking and became good mates again.Bout a few weeks ago i started seeing this other boy, and "mark" has been calling me and texting me 24 7He invited me to a party a while ago and when i turned up with my boyfriend,he tried to start a fight with him. My boyfriend is train to be a copper so "mark" kinda got his ass kicked. The next day he rang to say he loved me and that "We were destined to be together"Why is he being like this? How can i stop it? i don't want to see him hurt again. Any comments wuld be much appreciated
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2009):
Well, you have to tell him that he's a great guy, but he's a friend and nothing more and he never will be anything more. Be polite but very firm with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): He is in love with you, lay down the line say that you only think about him as a friend.
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reader, Blod +, writes (1 October 2009):
 It sounds like he hasn't got over you yet. Once you became good friends again after not talking for a while, maybe he though there was a chance that you could get back together. And now that you have a boyfriend, he's jealous and angry.
Be firm and honest with him. Tell him that you want to be friends but no more. You need to make him clear how you feel. Once he gets the message, he should leave you alone.
Good Luck. X
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