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*isa73
writes:well, i am a girl..and i have this friend who is also a girl..we've been friends for a while now (close friends) she said i could tell her anything..in january i told that i thought i was bi,and she said it is just a phase. and then in march i said that i think i'm lesbian and she tried to give me a lecture and then she accepted it..well recently i told her that i have a boyfriend now and he is a amazing (i want to be concidered normal)..the truth is i don't like him..and after i told her i had a boyfriend.she said she's happy as long as i'm happy..and said she was waiting on that special someone, but then she started to distance herself from me. dnt really talk to me much..i dnt know why?
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reader, Miyako-Chan +, writes (28 July 2009):
maybe she likes you more than a friend?
thats happened to me before x_x
i told my friend i was bi
but id only date guys due to drama where i live
and she stopped talking to me because she rly liked me
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): you should not make this guy suffer for your own mind games...sorry to be blunt. I say your best bet is to experience both to find out what you really are...keep that guy as a fuck buddy to see if its your kind..i mean you are confused..or watch lots of porn and analyze your reactions...""main thing in life is to always analyze yourself in different situations to keep your own self up to date about yourself and your reactions in different situations."" learn from yourself spend time with yourself...talk to yourself...communicate with different sex and analyze your thoughts about that person (all kind of thoughts, from fantasies to everything)...learn from yourself...you'll know
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Why don't you ask her why she is doing this? She is probably distancing herself from you because she thinks that you lied to her or that you are cruel for stringing this man along or both. And why don't you let go of this man if he doesn't make you happy? I had a gay guy pretend to be straight and date me and it broke my heart. He had one of his gay friends tell me on the phone that it was over. He couldn't even be a man and tell me himself in person. I had gotten all close with him and everything. I trusted him. Just like this poor man you're stringing along trusts you.
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