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writes:My boyfriend of 5 years and i broke up in March and we are spending the rest of the year apart he, moved out of town so he can get his life together. Before he moved he was "dating" a girl, pretty much staying with her until he left. I know and understand his reasons and the relationship they had. We still saw each other and talked all the time but were not seeing each other anymore until the end of the year. I've been so lonely since he left and I've been spending most of my time with his brother who I've know forever, that's how I met my ex. We used to be such good friends(ex's brother) and I had a little thing for him but nothing ever really happened, just aalot of flirting. Then when my ex and i started dating, our friendship completely changed i think he was mad or jealous but now when we hang out things are just like they used to be and i love it. Well for whatever reason we've wound up kissing on a couple occasions. Which i thought was no big deal but then we slept together. I don't regret it at all, i don't even know if i feel bad about it. We talked about it and we are on the same page, not making a big deal about it but we didn't put an end to it. I am completely in love with my ex if he called me now and said i'm coming home to spend the rest of my life with you i wouldn't think twice about he is the one, he's love of my life i really believe that. Part of me like this thing with his brother and I don't want to stop, is that bad???I don't want to tell anyone and I really need some advice. Thanks.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Yeah, your going to get burned if you keep on with the brother. Are you sleeping with him because you're actually into him or is he just filling your lonely void? Even though it's only sex if you get back together with your ex and he finds out from your brother he's going to leave you. Then you won't have either of them. If you plan on getting back with your ex then you need to cut out the fling with his brother and be honest with your ex. Or if you know there's no way your ex is getting back with you then I would date the brother..Either way your ex isn't going to be too happy about it but you 2 aren't together so you can do as you please. Go with your gut instinct and what will make you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): stay away from the brother, it will just cause alot of trouble, move on and find someone else, or if you care about ur ex so much tell him! but then that will also cause more probs because of the brother, your better off just staying clear of them x
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