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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm completely lost... My girlfriend calls me and texts me all day everyday. But she rarely asks me to come over anymore or asks to stay with me. She doesn't show me any physical emotions, like hugging kissing cuddling or anything. She says she enjoys spending time with me but if she stays with me overnight... when we lay in bed she will either get out of bed and sit on the floor, read, write or do something like that. And when she does get into bed with me she lays with her back to me and keeps like 2ft of space between us. She used to always be very close and affectionate... she still is at times but not very often... in the middle of the night she might roll over and put her arm around me but as soon as i start showing affection back, she rolls over and becomes distant...she spent 2 days with me and i kissed her when i picked her up and that was the only kiss we shared... this really bothers me and i don't know what she is thinking and shes not very open about her feelings
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Well she has to open up, but you need to tread gently. Something has happened to make her feel this way. She's upset about something, though I'm not sure what. I think you need to be honest with her and ask her why she has suddenly become distant, and tell her you're worried about her. I don't know what happened to her, but to be acting like that, something is wrong. She has to open up
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