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writes:I dated this beautiful girl in high school and for what ever reason I broke up with her. After high school graduation (1973), I started searching for her as I still loved her and have been searching and just now have found her. We have been chatting on the phone, IM and email. She has gone through some very rough times in the past and is very apprehensive about starting another relationship, which I can understand. I am currently married, but in a very rocky marriage and have been for several years now, and the marriage is headed down the drain very qickly and we currently seperated. Because I have been searching for her for all this time I asked her if I could send her something for Christmas and she said yes, but that I did not have to, so I am sending her 3 dozen red roses, one for every year I have been searching for her. I do not believe it is coincidence that we have found each other after all this time, neither does she. Is it wrong for me to pursue a relationship with her? As I said earlier I still truly believe I am in love with her. I am going to go and see here right after the first of the new year. Any adivice you can give me would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (9 December 2009):
 You've got to try and see what happens haven't you? If you don't you'll always regret it.
Just take it at her pace if you don't want to scare her off.
Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 December 2009):
I don't think so at all. You're separated (I hope she knows that), and she's single, so why not spend some happy times together. Just take your time with her, get to know her again and hopefully she'll open up. Good luck.
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