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41-50,
*r.Goodluv
writes:There is this gal who always turns down my requets of being her bf but soon after does or says something to give me hope like 'dont rush me', 'if you were my bf...' or 'give me time'.We often even do things togher like shopping andd asks my opinon on what to wear or hair stlye to put on. when we are alone she holds my hand like lovers do and gives me squeezing hugs when we are alone.we are yet to kiss .She tells me her secrets and i know she trusts me. but she flirts with strangers even in my presence? she simply does not care! shes very pretty, so naturally people are always after her. and i cant ask, shes not my gf. is she really interested or should i quiet.
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reader, honeyross  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 It seems as if she wants you only as a friend, but she's being very insensitive because she most likely realises how she is hurting you.It seems as if she might be 'stringing you along' in case she doesn't find anyone else.If you can, you may want to distance yourself a little and try to see the relationship only as a friendship. Unfortunately we can never change other people's thoughts and feelings, but luckily we can change our own.
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