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writes:My ex, who is now married, is flirting with me on the phone. I'm a little baffled because he dumped me after many years of living together and then married very quickly. My question is: is he trying to get me back or does he just realize he's made a mistake??
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 October 2012):
 asked: "I don't think flirting with an ex constitutes cheating. do you????"
I"m a huge flirt but I do think in this case if it's enough that she has to ask what he's up to and its on the phone and it's chronic or regular and it's not necessary contact, then YES it's cheating.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 I don't think you should entertain this guy to be honest. I feel that if you do things will progress into an affair and you will end up as his bit on the side, mistress seeing you whenever he can then slip back to the marital bed when he is done. I would nip this in the bud now because i don't sense a happy ending further down the road.
Good luck
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 What about maybe he's putting feelers out in case you'd be up for some casual quick NSA fun behind his wife's back ?...
Don't wonder why - curiosity killed the cat.
Don't let him flirt with you, and don't flirt back with him. He is married, remember.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): I don't think flirting with an ex constitutes cheating. do you????
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 October 2012):
it does not matter why he is doing it...
the question is WHY are YOU allowing it?
he's your EX and he's MARRIED
who cares if he thinks he made a mistake and wants you back
who cares why he is doing it... will it make a difference to you in terms of you accepting his attentions while he CHEATS ON HIS WIFE?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Could be that he is bored or unhappy in his marriage and reaches out to you because of happy memories he is trying to rekindle, not necessarily WITH you, but through you.
Reliving the "glory-days" when all was hunky-dory.
If I was you I would be wary of this. He is married after all. And HE dropped you.
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