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writes:one of my best freinds keeps on insulting me, she will say somthing about the way i look, once she said "i am fit you're not" and "that boy you like will say you are ugly"at the time i just laughed it off but now thinking about it i feel hurt that my freind said this.once she said something horrible to me and i gave her a taste of her own medicine and she was upset and shocked and said all i ever do is bitch about people which is not even true!!!!i get told i am pretty and cute and when she is around and i get told this she throws a strop and gets upset that she doesn't get told the same! why is she so mean to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (21 March 2008):
 heya hun.
the reason your freind is putting you down is fear.she is making you fell small so that she will seem bigger and better. it is obvious that your freind is not secure in her self. she has deep issues.
a true freind will not put you down in this way. prove her wrong, that boy she says will think you ugly probably doesnt so ask him out. give her a hard slap of reality in the face.your feeling small so other people can feel they are shining does not serve the world. but your shining does serve the world as it encourages other people to shine. your freind perhaps
love and light
chris
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 She doesn't sound like a friend. Yes, she is jealous of you and wants to tear down your Self Esteeme. When someone is jealous of you, deep down inside it is a "hate" feeling. I agree with other people who answered before me, who told you to get rid of her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): She says these things as she is very aware that you infact are not uglier than her. She is very jelous, nasty person, I think she is mean to make herself feel like she has got one over on you. I think you should find a new circle of friends and if she asks why, tell her. Shes not better than you so dont let her get away with saying so.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Kick this nasty jealous little bitch to the kerb and find new friends who appreciate you more.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Your 'friend' sounds jealous of you. By insulting you I bet it makes her feel better. You may not realise it but you are probaly prettier/cleverer/nicer than her and she doesn't like it. Talk to her about it, and ask what you have done to deserve this, because friends don't treat other friends like this, and someone needs to tell her that. Message me if you wanna talk! Good luck! xoxox
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reader, Michael Bo Andersen  +, writes (21 March 2008):
She is jealous, she might have the same taste for boys as you do, she sees you as a threat for finding herself a boyfriend, you being prettier and cuter, it's natural that she tries to make you unhappy about yourself in situations like this. She may be a good friend, but with the same taste for boys, you'd better not talk much more about boys with her.Hope you could use any of itMichael
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