A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I have a guy friend who I have known for nearly 5 years. I am 21 yr gay guy and he is 18. From about three months ago, he has started to text me frequently like 2 times a day. He laughs very loudly at my jokes. One day he gave his computer for repairs but has never asked about it. He has started to send me kisses from time to time, like once he promised to come over to my place and he couldn't and he sent a text saying "sorry!!" followed by a kiss in text. This happened about three or four times. I want to be friends and more.. but I am not sure how to reply. When I try to reply like him he sends crazy smilies. We joke a lot over the phone and I am wondering why he is sending kisses. When I meet him he sometimes stands close and touches me with his elbow without showing the other friends. He has another guy friend who is very close to him, they hang out a lot together and seems to be jealous of me. Can anyone pleas help?? why is my friend sending me kiss signs?? Is this normal?? This week he asked me if I like to go to the carnival together. I want to take things further but afraid that I will lose the friendship. I have feelings for him but how should I respond??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): Accept his invitation! Go to the carnival with him! That's what friends are
for. Just don't get romantically involved over it, and don't jump into the
sack with him afterwards. You don't even have to kiss him. Just give him
a short hug and thank him for a fun (hopefully) evening and leave it at that.
Base your relationships on your reality not on his mind games.
All the best.
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female
reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 I think he is flirting by sending the "kisses". He does seem to have another who is close to him so if you try to have a relationship with him then you will have problems regarding his friend. If his friend is already jealous then if you do try you will have to deal with his friend.
My advice is to take is slow for now and let things fall into place. It could be that he is just the flirty type and talks to everyone like this.
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