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writes:I recently wrote in a question; http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-for-someone-to-change-if.html.Well everything was going well with that boy, we went to the pictures and texted each other alot and then we drove to the next town to pick his bike up on Wednesday and everything was fine and we were ment to be going out this weekend, but he hasn't texted me since Thursday.On Wednesday night he was talking to my ex and my ex was asking about me (dispite already having a new girlfriend) but he said he's not bothered about my ex and that if he kicks off he doesn't care. But ever since he hasn't texted me, I texted him and he hasn't replied. But I don't think it's anything to do with my ex but everything was fine up until then and he never mentioned anything bad and I don't understand why my ex is asking about me, because I don't care about what he's doing so he should be the same.I'm a bit worried because after being with my ex I feel like I have to be extra careful with new people. I know I won't see this boy again because he obviously isn't interested anymore but it's confusing me because I don't know why my ex is getting involved! This is probably silly but I don't want to talk to my ex to ask about what he's said but it's really annoying me not knowing why he's started asking about me again.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Have you ever thought that perhaps your ex told this guy something that put him off you?
I know it sounds horrible, but it could be a reason.
Or otherwise this guy has just been too busy recently to see you.
I think you should text your ex and ask him what he said to him. Also this new guy may have become wary about your ex and perhaps thinks theres somethings still going on between you, like some feelings so he doesnt want to get in the way. Even if he did say he didnt care...he might not really feel that inside. Just text him, saying if somehting your ex said to him put him off. If he doenst reply then hes not worth it. Forget him and move on. Find someone else and make sure next time that your new guy doesnt come into contact with your ex until things have been talked through and warned about.
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