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writes:Why would a guy i split up with about 8 months ago, and who constantly tells me he cant forgive me and has moved on, continue calling me every so often, text me, help me financially (apparently for my kid's sake) when i am really stuck for cash? Most recently, my sister was visiting and we arranged to go to a restaurant that my ex promotes, so that I could get discount (i helped my ex set up his company so still get some benefits from it). Last minute we had to cancel and my ex found out from the owner, called me and said he had arranged for a bottle of wine to be presented to us at the restaurant. When i asked why, he said to say thank you for helping him set up his company. Is this normal? Why is he still being so nice? He knows i still care for him, even tho i was the one who instigated the spilt between us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): I'm with Jay12toes. It's okay for an ex to be kind. And sometimes people can dramatically change. Maybe he has embraced true happiness; deciding that kindness and gratitude suits him just fine.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Its been 8 months, thats enough time for him to get over it and start being your friend again. Its a completely normal thing to do.
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