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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:my best friend called me a boring skan.k cos i said i wont sleeping with strangers like her when we go on holiday.we were married on face book and i took it off..she said am pathetic.. and i just said i dont wanna be married..why cant she apologise she wrote back this...ur da one wiv da fuc.kin problem, one min were best friends and all nice da nxt min u dont even wanna kno me and ur bare off! and good dont give a **** den, w.e. u wana fuc.kin remember fings ive done 4 u nd wen ive stuck up 4 u! dats a tru friend right dere but ur 2 blind 2 see dat. why is she been like that??what should i say back to her?? i really wana tell her i dont believe in best friends!! what do you think??thnx.xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 February 2010):
To be perfectly honest, this bears all the hallmarks of a girl who is so unhappy with her own life that the only way she can feel good is to take it out on you. She insults you because you won't sleep around,, she's childish about facebook and continues to insult you. These are not the acts of a friend. These are the acts of someone who is merely trying to drag you down to her level. You won't like this, but you would do better for yourself to move on from her.
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reader, SleeplessLullaby +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Talk it through, and if she can't accept it and is still calling you horrible names like that then I suggest that you try to find a new friend.
That is no way to behave, especially when you've not done anything unreasonable; you're only responding to what she's doing to you, so she has no right to have a mouth-off at you like that.
I wouldn't accept it off my friends.
Hope things work out okay for you, remember to talk about your issues first, S.L. x
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Hey
this sounds like a sticky situation, you need to explain to her why you changed that status, and the way the comment she made about you made you feel, as not wanting to sleep with strangers is certainly not a bad thing!! tell her you want to be her friend but her behaviour is not fair.
please give me some feed back on how this goes.
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