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Why is he with her when he says he felt this way about me? Opinions, from men especially, appreciated!

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Question - (14 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex boyfriend tells me that hes never felt the way he feels when he kisses me with anyone else. He has a new girlfriend (he got back with a long term ex he was with before me) and even though he wants to see me sometimes, no signs of wanting to get back together. He tells me often no one has ever been able to feel as good i have, when we kiss, hold each other, and when we are intimate. He says that everything feels very passionate with me and his current gf doesnt make him feel that way. What does this mean?! Why does he feel the need to tell me this if he has a gf and isnt saying he wants to be with me. He says he is confused, but he is still with her. Please tell me your opinions? Thank you!

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntHe's not confused. He is telling you all this bull in order to keep you around when he'd like some sex. Think about this...he's only complimenting your sexual skills, not you as a person. Do you really want to be with someone who only cares about having sex with you and not your feelings?

If he loved you, he'd be with you. I suggest you move on.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009):

I think he is telling you what he thinks you want to hear and he is trying to keep the fires burning in case this ex dumps him down the road. He is manipulative and I would say you have all the information that you need about his feelings for you...he is with someone else.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (14 September 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntIt means he likes to "have his cake and eat it too". You can look up the meaning of this saying on the internet...

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