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Why is he giving me an ultimatum?

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Question - (11 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *lways hopeful writes:

I'm 3 months pregnant, in the beginning my boyfriend acted like this was what he wanted we were even trying to get pregnant for a while... now he's making excuses as to why he can't be with me and doesn't want anything to do with the baby. The latest excuse is this: he works an A.A. program for the past 5 years( the entire time we been together), he is now saying that I need to be working the same program with the same group of people as he does or else he can't and wont be with me. I don't feel I need to do this and its just his way of controlling me. I love him and want to be with him I want to raise our baby together. Should I give in and work this program evn if I don't believe in it or feel like I need it?

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (12 August 2011):

Go to the AA program and tell whoever is in charge of it that you are there because the boyfriend is threatening to leave you if you don't.

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (12 August 2011):

Go to the AA program and tell whoever is in charge of it that you are there because the boyfriend is threatening to leave you if you don't.

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