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writes:I am 25yrs old female while my guy is 31yrs old we both love each other so much but later i noticed he refuses to introduce me to any of his family members apart from his friends. I asked him why that he if truly he loves me doing that is not a problem,he keeps complainin that after all i introduce him as a friend to my parent without knowing my parent already know who he is to me since then he has stopped calling me visiting,calling me on fone instead he preferred chatting with me on social network when ever he wishes.The craziest thing he does is putting a fake pictures of another lady with this writeup miss u dear although i refused to say anything but within me i was disturbed, that i cant stop myself from going through his profile all day to see his posting. Now all he does now is to call me his friend he doesnt like the pet name we usually call each other again.I need ur advice how do i get rid of my emotion or feelings towards him that alone is making me sick. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, MSA  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 One word: Childish. I would wish him the best of luck with whomever he's posting pics of. You should move on to find a more mature man that won't play games with you. Also if he doesn't want to introduce you to family after being together for a while, he is not that serious about you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 December 2015):
 You write " We both love each other so much" - but his behavior isn't that of a guy who loves his lady.
This is a guy who is trying VERY hard to DUMP you in a cowardly way by "faking" another girl into the picture.
Block and delete him and MOVE on. Why chase after a man who isn't one bit interested in you, and seems to be trying to hurt your feelings?? It's a waste of your time and energy.
Let him have his "fantasy GF" on Facebook, but stop wasting your time. Remove him from your life, go out and socialize with friend (no, don't look for a new BF till yo are over this guy) - but spend people who DO care about you and who DO treat you in a nice way. Friends and family.
And IF he tries to reach out to you, tell him to go kick rock because YOU deserve more and better than how he has treated you.
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