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writes:I used to notice that my girl liked to check out older guys when they walked past her, before I realized it was actually guys with clean shaven heads that she has this weird thing for. She said she found bald guys really hot. Well I found it weeeird but I kinda forgot about it. Yesterday we celebrated her 21st birthday. Brought her to a fancy restaurant. Instead of buying her a gift I asked her what she wanted from me.She had to be pullin my leg when she asked if I could shave my head for her. Turns out she is serious, she really digs bald dudes. Some kind of fetish. WhoaaaSo should I shave my head? I have a full head of hair it's not like it's thinning.Or is she just testing me? like, would I go the distance and humiliate myself by looking like Bruce Willis, just for her.if she really likes bald guys... what is wrong with her? Should I make an appointment with the shrink for her LOL ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2015): I did it. I look pretty scary now, yeah my dad's gonna piss in his pants when he sees me coz I look like that guy from American History X haha.Well she seems happy about my shiny new chrome dome. Even updated her Facebook profile to show off her new skinhead boy lol. I posted this question was because I thought she was like putting me to da ultimate test or whatever. She says she just finds bald guys sexy though she has no idea why haha.On the bright side, I noticed I ran 2 mph faster during soccer practice today...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 December 2015):
 Clearly, she is suffering from "Baldus, putoutis".... which means that she has a phobic preference for bald guys.
There is no known treatment for this condition.... so the only thing a guy can do... if he wants her to put out for him... is to shave his head.
The good thing is.... that - if you and she don't hit it off, after the big event.... then your hair is almost certain to grow back.... and you can go trolling for a girl (the more customary ones) who have "hot hedda-hair-itis"...
Good luck...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 December 2015):
 Your gf has not got a fetish for bald men, or men who shave their heads ( as proven by the fact that she is perfectly fine dating and , I assume, having sex with a guy like you with a full head of hair ). She just has a preference, and frankly I don't understand why you are making such a song and dance about it, - it's a preference just like preferring tall guys, or tanned guys, or blue eyed guys .
Or like... topping your pizza with anchovies. Some people like anchovies, some hate them. Should the anchovy haters call a shrink for the anchovy eaters , or viceversa ?
I guess that maybe in your area the shaved head look is a bit unusual or not mainstream, hence your amazed reaction. But the bald head thing, in general, is not at all so bizarre to attract special notice, and not even that new, as for that. Ever heard of Yul Brynner ? Women used to be crazy about him, and that was quite a few decades ago.
Said that, anyway, just go with the bald look if YOU are eager for a change or curious to try, i.e. if it is something that for some reason appeals to YOU, not just because you want to please your gf . Same as she would not ( hopefully ), and should not , shave her head or get fake boobs or get her backside tattoed just to fit in with your ideal of female beauty.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (10 December 2015):
 if you are up for a change then sure ,why not? I probably wouldn't shave it off bald straight away because if you have a tanned face and your head is not then you might just regret looking like a Chupa Chup, thats a two toned lollypop where Im from. instead Id start with maybe shaving down to a number two or three and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2015): I dont think she has a mental issue by having a thing for bald guys, its not like she likes abnormal looking people, bald is normal!Do you look good bald? I can think of a few men who look gorgeous bald, even better than when they had hair. I think David Beckham looks hot with a shaved head. But my current boyfriend has loads of hair and when he tried it shaved he looked really weird.You could try it out for her, it's just hair and it can always grow back. You don't really seem like it bothers you that she has this thing for bald people, more like you're slightly amused. So I dont think its much of an issue.I remember a guy who I was seeing for a bit kept telling me to dye my hair blonde. I'm quite pale with light blue eyes but my hair is almost black and all he ever did was ask me to dye my hair blonde. In the end it annoyed me because I felt like he wanted somebody else. I wouldn't dye my hair for him because I knew I would have looked stupid! But if you're not bothered, try it out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 December 2015):
 That depends, whether YOU want to or not. If yo don't, I think it's perfectly fine to say no. If you do, I'd wait till spring. (don't do it in summer or winter for obvious reasons).
My thing is this though, let's say YOU had a fetish too - for blonds or redhead and she was a brunette, would you ask her to dye her hair? Would she do it?
And last but not least, DO you look good with a buzz-cut/bald head? Because it's CERTAINLY not all men who can get away with it.
As for the "shrink-joke" unnecessary, I kind of can't believe you went "there". I wouldn't call what she has a fetish - as she obviously can date a guy with a full head of hair, nor is there anything mentally wrong in her liking bald men.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (9 December 2015):
 It might be a laugh to try a new style. Bald works for film star Jason Statham. I would have a go. You can always grow it back which many men cannot.
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