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writes:The guy I like kissed me he is one grade higher than me and i kinda felt it coming. I like him a lot but the thing is that he has stopped all the usual. All that happened on a Friday the next week he stopped walking me home and instead of walking himself home he stayed at his friend's house that is before my house and that meant he wouldn't walk me. He us to flirt with me all the time and touch me every time he got the chance. Not in a bad way but like a hug that could last for longer than it should and he could sneak up on me and hug me from behind he touched my cheeks a lot and made up things to touch me. That week the only touch i got from him was on the hips when he sneaked up on me while walking to school, i was happy but i could feel the awkwardness start. He took a present my friend had gave me and made me play it back from him, which was fun:). But when i went to my friend's house who has a brother that is his best friend he was there and he acted so serious. When we went to pick up my friend's little sister the guys were ahead and in a turn of a corner he was the last and i remember he turned he's head while walking to the side and it felt like he was looking at me. To resume all, what happened is he kissed me the week that came he avoided me and the week that came after that we had encounters where he acted playful and different sometimes but never the same, still avoiding me. Why? Why is he avoiding me? I told him i liked him after the kiss because i had asked him if he did and he say he " why would i-? and cut off as if saying he why would he kiss me if he didnt. Yes i remember we ended in a bad note in that kiss because i babbled and my mom came out calling me because of a phone call. Maybe he thinks my mom doesnt want to see him? Because my mom can give some stares Lol and she kinda always comes out when he is in site.So why is he avoiding me after the kiss? It felt like he liked me and i still kinda sort of think he does but then there are things that make me think he doesnt....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so i want to say thnx i talked to him and it was his friends like you said, im with him now thnx :)
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Hmmm, perhaps the fact that he is a grade higher is the problem here. I mean, you said he acted all serious in front of his friend, and for some reason it'd look bad that he was going around with someone from a grade lower. Either that or he thought you two were just messing around as friends and then when you said you liked him it freaked him out. If it's that one, then he's just not into you the same way you're into him. If it's the first one, then he's just being a typical teenage boy...what his mates think is important to him. The best thing to do is get him face to face and ASK him what's going on.
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