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51-59,
anonymous
writes: Last weekend I was with my friend. He is male we have been friends for a year now. We went in a relationship then he went back to his ex then broke up with her and we waited for 2 months then got together again and have spent time together, but seems this week we just fight. He is spending less time with me doesnt seem to talk that much with me and when I asked if he wanted to spend time with me it's "I dunno".I have asked him if there is someone else he said that I am crazy and feel that everything is a conspiracy. I care so much for him but dont want to get hurt again.I feel I am trying too hard and he spends less time with me. I dont know what to do anymore.He is spending more time on a internet site playing poker and seems to be going on with another girl who doesn't live close to us and we fight on it, but he contines to do it.I tell him I will give him space but he says that's not what he wants, but he doesnt seem like he wants me either.He doesnt want to commit but he doesnt want me to be with anyone else or date. please help.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (14 June 2008):
tell him your haveing a hard time with this relationship, and you dont feel wanted so your leaveing unless he can give you a reason to stay. based on what he has to say, you can judge for yourself whether or not you should continue in this relationship. if he wants you to stay then take this oppertunity to talk to him about exactly how you feel.
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