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writes:hey my boyfriends dog passed away and he really loved it a lot..he would do anything..he is in nebraska right now and i am in nevada..i want to send him a nice msg consoling him,but i am not finding the right words..could anyone(females only)please help me out!!!its urgent!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey INDIA thank u soooo much..those were really kind words..i am trying to do the best i can cuz he is soo far away!!!but its fine i never feel the distance he is always there with me wherever i am be it in whatever way!!!thanks once again..and thank u soo much for the advice both india and lotus mama..luv ya..
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Hey sweetness,
the best you can do is to not make him feel silly for being so broken up over the loss of his dog. When my dog died, I was devastated and felt really silly for reacting so poorly. It truly felt like a member of the family died.
He'll get over it soon enough, but make sure you show him nothing but love and support. Ask him how he's doing and send him lots of long distance love. Maybe even make him a sweet "feel better" package (like cookies or new X-Box game or something) and send it to him in the mail.
Be the sweetest you can be, and he'll be thanking you later!
Good luck sweetness (you sound like such a wonderful girlfriend!! He is lucky to have you.),
xx India
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 I found that the best way to consloe is to let HIM do the venting. "Hey sweetie, you feeling okay? You want to talk, or do you just need some space right now?" If you dont plan to talk to him and you just want to msg him, "Hey babe, just wanted to say I'm sorry, I know this is hard. If you want to talk about it, I'm all ears, or if you just want some time to process this, I'll be here for you. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I love you". Be supportive. When my step dad was a kid, and he lost his dog, he was so stressed out about it, he started losing his hair! He laughs about it now though, so just be his emotional support system. Good luck.
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