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writes: Will my ex change? And why did he start counseling now, after we are broken up? Throughout our relationship I felt like he treated me not right and that it was very unhealthy. He never agreed to go to counseling but now he is! What is up with that?! I broke up with him and he was devastated!
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reader, agonyunclechris  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 heya hunwell your ex most probably decided to go into counselling now as he can start a fresh and can get back on track to get on with his lifehe may have gone into counselling to try and get you back as he realises what he did was stupid but most probably he wants to get his life on track again :)chris xx
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 Hi there...
Well, he might be going for counseling for two reasons
- He might be trying to get you back, because he realized too late that he was totally messed up.
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- He might be trying to shape up so that he doesn't make the same mistake in a future relationship.
Do you know which?
Either way, i think it is humble of him to go for counseling (even if he should have gone YEARS ago).
It must be hard to admit that you have a problem, even worse, having to decide that you need counseling to fix it.
You should appreciate the fact that he is trying.
This doesn't mean you'll have to take him back, but you could support him through this. Counseling is sometimes a very hard, cold and lonely road...
Good luck...
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