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*izita416
writes:I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months. We have been calling each other more and more often now. We even discussed on going out, but we have never been on a date. He called me last friday while I was over a friend's house and I answered. We talked for like half an hour. Ummm...one of my friends sister was behaving immature and actually took the phone away from and she just said hi to him and then I took it back, I apologized and he seemed good. He asked if my friend had a camera and I said yeah, he asked me if I could send him a picture with her camera phone, I said sure and sent him one, not my best I must admit, but it wasn't that bad. I called him Sat, Sun, Mon, left a message, Tues, And today and sent him a text. I just want to make sure he is okay, but he hasn't called me back. What's even weirder is that on the weekends he's the one who calls me. So I am thinking 3 possible factors for the fact that he hasn't called: 1. He thought my picture was ugly. 2. He thought my friends were immature and therefore makes me immature as well. 3. My friends might have called him and told him something to drive him away from because they actually want me to date their brother. What should I do??!
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reader, lizita416 +, writes (21 March 2009):
lizita416 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers. I know nothing happened to him, because today he delivered some stuff to the company that I work for, I didn't see my co-worker did and he told me. Ummm...I'm pretty sad about the whole situation, but I know he knows I've been calling him, I think that he was just playing around with me...that hurts so bad....
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (19 March 2009):
 For starters, don't push so hard. Calling him every day might be setting him off a bit. To be blunt, you might be giving off the impression of being clingy if you guys have not been calling on the phone every day before this.
Judging by your age, I would think that 2 and 3 are highly unlikely factors. And, although it's true that all people have different tastes in looks, I'm sure you're good looking and that factor 1 wasn't it either. Another factor that you may not have consider is that he could have gotten really, really busy with school or work. I know that doesn't excuse not calling and you can give him a little bit of grief for that. However, it could still be a factor.
My suggestion: wait a little while. Stop calling him every day and just let it rest for a few days. Maybe even consider waiting until this Sunday and then giving him a call then if he hasn't already. Also, if you have his email, it might be good to try a different form of communication... especially as it's also possible he lost his cell phone.
Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Dont do anything. You have tried to get into contact with him now it is his turn to respond. If he doesn't respond it is his loss and basically if he is being picky over something so petty then you don't want to see him anyways. Trust me, you and your friends did nothing wrong.
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