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writes:So, there's this girl I like. When she sees me at a party she'll come talk to me and give me a hug without me even attempting to talk to her, but if I text her or send her a message on Facebook she hardly ever replies. I can't figure out why she'd come talk to me in person but won't reply to a text or facebook message. What do you guys think?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 June 2011):
 maybe she hates facebook messages and texts?
I don't always answer facebook... it's a pain as i don't have it at work... and texts? I love to text but my BF hates it so it's a limitation of the relationship....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Different codes :)that's no so strange though. In fact, very easy to break ...
Meeting you at a party and coming to greet = schmoozing and socializing, being superficially friendly and slightly flirty in a typical party mood : Mwah-mwah. Great to see you. You look great !
Answering your text or FB message = giving you attention at YOUR request , thereby letting you cross the boundaries into her circle of friends / closer acquaintances / suitors, which she clearly does not want to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Nope, she doesn't have a boyfriend. I usually only see her on the weekends. Still, I find it strange that she'll walk over to me and ask for a hug (even if she's with her friends) and we'll talk but yet she won't reply to a text.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Thank y'all for taking the time to respond to my question. I agree that its very odd that she'd go out of her way to come talk to me but won't reply to a text. I could understand if I annoyed her by texting her everyday but I don't text her often at all. Basically because she doesn't reply often. she's the total opposite of how most people are, including myself. There's some people that text me and I'll text back but I don't care to have a face to face conversation with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Does she have a boyfriend? If so, that is your answer. If not, then she's just not that into you. Don't give up hope, though. Maybe she'll come around. As long as she is still cool with you in person there's a chance. A girl who is really into you would text you back, though. Does she call you? Do you see her frequently?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Maybe she's just too polite to snub you in person.
More likely, she does like talking to you but isn't a text or facebook person.
Frankly, I'm not one either. Emails, I like. It lets me express myself properly. Texts, not so much. Facebook, I just don't get. There's guys I've slept with to whose texts I won't respond for no better reason than that I take too long to type a text and find it too restrictive anyway.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Let it go. Facebook is a social network, not a social obligation. She respects you by keeping her responses REAL.
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