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*melissajanex
writes:My boyfriend and I are both seventeen and have been dating about 6 months, and we recently slept together. The first time he came after about 45 mins but the next time he didnt at all, am I doing something wrong or do all young guys get that??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): He is nervous...plain & simple. As time goes on, and you two have had sex more & he is more comfortable with it, there should be no issue. This same thing happened to me, and after about a month the problem went away.
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reader, mulla +, writes (6 October 2007):
dont worry about it its common for some guys, you cant expect a guy to come all the time, the best fink to do is once u have had sex once is not to have it again give it a couple of hours, sumtimes it depends on the guys mood and what he may have on his head, u can sometimes help him overcome this by asking him if he has gone anything on his mind and help him get it out in orde for your relationship and sex life to be better, neway thats what i would think neway, speak to him. neway hun good luck to you and i wish u all the best in lyf
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reader, Lila  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Sometimes men and women simply cannnot cum during intercourse, usually because of stress. Alcohol plays a huge part as do certain drugs. Maybe you could consider it a blessing from what I remember most young guys have the opposite problem.You are not doing anything wrong,if his penis is actually in your vagina during said intercourse, I assure you that's the right way. It's so easy a caveman could do it and did.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 The usual problem for young guys (and others) is to ejaculate very soon. So, this isn't something that happens to everyone, but it does happen. Maybe he was too heavy into masturbation before, so his penis needs time to adjust to the different sensations that a vagina produces. And, I bet he has some performance anxiety.
It's unlikely that he will tell you anything about this, as 1) he won't like you to know he masturbated very often, or 2) he won't want you to think that he "just can't" do it.
Give him some time. And, In any case, don't feel you are to blame for anything.
Take care.
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