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writes: dear readersim currently having a problem with a girl. i met her online and we talk when ever shes on and also talk to her on the phone aswell. i have asked her to meet up with her and she goes yes but then never shows up and comes up with excuses, this happened about three times. she says she likes me and says that i would make a good bf to her and so on. but my question is "why does she say all this stuff and when i ask her to meet me she agrees but never shows up??" do you think she is just saying all those stuff to make me think she likes me or does she mean them?thnk you for taking the time to read this Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): How old are you two? If you are still young and doing school stuff then things are going to get in the way.And who said you are ugly???? Beauty comes from within and you shouldn't ever feel ugly, you are a beautiful person and deserve to meet someone really lovely. Be patient and wait until things work out.Take carexx
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reader, Bailey J  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Don’t put all your eggs in one basket honey. Don’t let anyone put you down for the way you look. You are you and you should be proud of that. So you haven’t found the right girl yet, trust me she's out there its just a matter of waiting.
For this girl, don’t act to eager and say sure that fine, just give me a call sometime. She'll soon come around. She may be telling the truth after all.
Good Luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni can't, as i can not get girls as they say im ugly and shes the first girl to have said that she likes and she goes first tyme her family came back from a different country and i didnt have a fone so she couldnt call me, the next time we both was busy, and the third time she goes that her mum went to hospital, she now says she wont be allowed as we both have gcse's to study for and cant go out, but said shes free after that.
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (19 March 2007):
I think maybe it’s because you met on line. She maybe thinking of the dangers of meeting up with someone you have met on the internet or she could have told some lies, such as the way she looks or what kind of person and family she is from. She probably likes you but knowing that when you meet her you'll see the real her... you may not want to see her again. I'd talk to her about a couple of these things and see what happens from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): When you meet someone on line you can never be 100% sure that they really are who they make out to be. For all you know this girl could already be in a relationship,engaged or even married.She could be bored with her relationship and is enjoying flirting and the attention from you. To let you down three times, something tells me that all is not what it appears to be. Even though she says you are good boyfriend material surely she would want to meet you, you seem like a genuine,caring person. Don't let her mess you about anymore, give her an ultimatum, either you're going to meet up or you will stop all contact with her. if a girl was really into you, she'd make every effort to meet up with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Why are you still waiting for her to turn up when she clearly has no intention of doing so? Just tell her to get lost and move on. Stop wasting your time on this game player.
Take care
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Why do you keep giving her the chance to let you down. Possibly you would forgive the girl once for not turning up for date, but three?.
She is clearly giving you the runaround and playing some pathetic childish game. Its up to you, but i would be tempted to tell her, to take a running jump. There are plenty more girls out there, that would not treat you in this manner. But its up to us all in life, not to let others walk all over us. If you let her get away with this, she will just carry on. Why would you want to date a girl that is totally thought-less.
I hope you find the courage to tell her, to sod off. XX
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reader, ADELE14 +, writes (19 March 2007):
well the think is you did meet her online she will need a bit of time intill she has the confidence to turn up she dont know the real you and she is unsure of what is going on just give her time never push girls in to tricky situations because your all wais be the one who gets hurt
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reader, carla3683 +, writes (19 March 2007):
 hi there it sounds like she may be a bit scared to meet you as you have only spoke on line and over the phone you may need to think what it is you want from this girl? and if you really want to see her you wont mind waiting untill she is ready to meet with you it might be just that she need to build up the confiance to acctualy meet up with you . hjust be patiant and i hope things go well for you good luckxx
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