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writes:hello Why does my man have moodswings? well you see my man is like very romantic with me then in 5minutes time he is rude again or tells me dont you have something to do? i meen then again 30minutes later he want to be all romantic again with me. he is always worried about his phone like where ever he moves in the house it goes with. if i would ask him what is that all about or whom is that he'll say in a calm way just that dude .... then in the same breath what the hell is it to me anyways i dont need to tell you anything and why all the questions then again he is friendly with me. im so confused at the moment because if im not bussy he always gives me stuff to do and if i wanna sleep/relax then im lazy he barely kisses me or hugs me these days it was never like this before and i did ask him he said he love's me and i should know it he doesnt need to tell me always he plans stuff without telling me and i just have to go where ever he wants to go what can i do to bring the hugs back i mean he doenst have to like do all those lovely stuff to me or hang on me all the time just now and then and im happy but i feel neglected at the moment it feels sometimes as if he fogot that im his wife.... please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 October 2009):
He could be suffering from a nervous disorder, or depression. Has he been tested for anything by the doctor?
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reader, hillbillyash +, writes (28 October 2009):
i dont know how long you have been together but i would say maybe hes bored or he feels like your spending to much time together,have you told him how you feel and if he comes with nasty remarks like you said he does just say to him that you are been for real and this is how you feel and he needs to make more of an effort.if he makes plans and dosent let you know about them then ask him just to run it by you and not assum you will go along with them.you need to start and say something or i should think he will start to take advantage of you and become a controll freak maybe.as for the mobile,i wouldent assum there is anything going on regards another woman bcause im like that with my mobile its just an habbit.maybe your thinking to hard in your head about what all the things 'could' mean and hoping for him to assure you by telling you he loves you and hugging you.but really you need to talk to him tell him how you are feeling and just say sometimes like.. 'it would be nice for us to do something that i want to do',but if he trys to put you on the spot by sayin 'well what do you want to do then?' make sure you've thought of something before you say it that way he wont call your bluff because ive lernt thats what could happen and then im left saying 'well i dont know' witch then gets me the annswer back 'see! why say that then when you dont even know what you want to do' just think it out,talke it out with your self and then get him when hes not busy and your both alone and then tell him, ask him all the things you want to,hope this helps :0)
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