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writes:Ok I have a very important question......One night when I spent the night over my friend house her brother and I did some freaky stuff..and now since that night I been thinking that I wanted to loose my virginity to him he's 15 and im 14.....should I?
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reader, deadduderc +, writes (7 August 2009):
Before you do anything, you should ask your friend what she would think if you slept with her brother. If she tells you that she has no problem with it and just as long as you feel like you are ready to lose your virginity, then go for it but you should probably use protection unless you are already in a serious relationship with him.
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reader, Anonymousmale1 +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Losing your virginity is a very big issue and although I understand how you could want to move to the next step it is very important to understand the consequesnces that go along with it.
At your age (please, I am not talking down to you) boys are very, very fickle. What you think will possibly be a secret could make you the class target for all types of gossip.
Losing ones virginity should be considered sacred. It should be done with someone who loves you even more then you he. No woman should ever give the right to deflower her to a man (boy) who does not have her best interest at heart.
No one can tell you exactly what to do in this situation, the choice is truly yours. However, I would like to remind you that what you do next could haunt you for years to come.
If you chose to move forward with this, it will be difficult for you to determine if any boy who says he likes you, really does, or is he pretending because your secret got out? Thats a difficult position to be in I assure you.
Young boys talk and to make things even more difficult if he says something and it becomes gossip you'll have to deny it which will make him look like a liar. This may not set good with your best friend because now you've just attacked her brother and in the process you'll lose three important things: 1) Your virginity, 2) your dignity and self respect & 3) your best friend.
Ask yourself, is all this trouble and loss worth it?
If your answer is no, then wait until you find someone who loves you and wait until the time is truly right. Which hopefully be in about 3-4 more years, ha,ha.
I hope this helps you and you do whats best for you and your future.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 i get what your saying kind of lol. well your the only one who can make up your own mind.you might regret it after, and you might want to loose your virginity to someone you actually love.i can't tell you what to do but whatever you do,think wisely and do it for the best.
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