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Why is he treating me this way?

Q.   This guy was always really nice to me and all of a sudden he was almost mean, teasing me and ignores me at random times.. i barely talk to him and then he'll just come up and talk to me.. i don't understand. Oh and he has a girlfriend....

A.   29 July 2010: His girlfriend told him to stop being "really nice" to you. Sounds like he's got to make sure no spies are around when he speaks to you.... (read in full...)

Why does he do this to me?? am soo depressed.

Q.   so my ex came to my house he told me to make him some tea i did. he asked if am dating anyone i said yeah.. he said he regrets getting with me cos i couldn't even kiss and then he showed me a text message from some girl who is in love with...

A.   21 July 2010: Stop doing with the creep tells you to do! You're in your home, he should not be ordering you to do anything. Tell your brother what he has done and ask your brother to make sure the guy doesn't come to the house again. Why would you let some... (read in full...)

Why does my wife behave like this? I love her!

Q.   I have been married last 30 years, but not happy from my wife just because have the filling that she never loves me from her heart. The reason for that she never smiles, she has never told me once that I love you or never expressed any signs of ...

A.   21 July 2010: 30 years and she's never said, "I love you". I'm afraid you have a very big problem that can not be solved here. You love her, so you need to talk with her about getting help. Go with her to the doctor and explain her sadness. Perhaps some ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get my ex to talk to me again?

Q.   so currently i feel like crawling into a hole and never coming out... i feel like i've stuffed everything up and there's no way in hell it's ever going to be fixed. i got dumped, by text and with no explanation by the first guy i've ever actual...

A.   15 July 2010: You were smart to tell the new man that you weren't ready to be in a relationship, you don't sound emotionally ready. The feelings you have are normal after a break up and will fade in time. Don't act out on the negative feelings, try to be a lady, ... (read in full...)

Why do I always push my girlfriends away by finding faults with them?

Q.   Ok I need help in working out if I always push my girlfriends away, or if I'm just very judgement, or both. And if so why? I feel I do this by trying to find faults with them. I find faults which genuinely do annoy me and then make them feel b...

A.   15 July 2010: I think you just haven't found the right girl yet. Someone you can respect and trust, worthy of your unconditional love.... (read in full...)

Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!

Q.   My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most...

A.   15 July 2010: I disagree with the majority of the posts having just been through a similar situation myself. Unless your husband has maintained a close relationship with his ex father-in-law, or his ex-wife has asked that he go, he should not attend. He ca... (read in full...)

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