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writes:so i been with my boyfriend for a while now and we started to get closer and by that i mean that we have started to have sex. sex just gets better and better everytime but there is one small thing. When we start to play around with eachother, and we are about to start, he has to always go to the bathroom to pee. is that normal or whats happening ? please help. i dont mind that he does that it just worries me. or maybe his about to be done and thats why he goes to the bathroom ? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 June 2012):
 You are about to start... is he already erect? if so then wiseoldman may be correct in his interpretation...
when he goes to pee is he gone a bit of a while? do you hear him pee?
I always pee before and after sex... it's good to do so.. especially for women (you should pee after sex always helps flush out the bacteria)
I don't see peeing before sex as abnormal...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 June 2012):
 I thought that was normal? It's good to pee before sex for many reasons, it's uncomfortable to have someone pushing on your bladder and for many guys, it helps them last longer to have an empty bladder. Also it's very unsexy to be in the middle of sex and suddenly have to pee. And no matter what, you should absolutely pee after sex to prevent UTIs. I don't think it's anything to worry about, it's pretty normal.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (15 June 2012):
Before answering this I checked the age of consent in Mexico, and at your age it's perfectly legal. As for your question- is your boyfriend no longer erect when he returns, but 'back in shape' shortly after the two of you start playing around again? It's possible he's having a very quick 'decompression session' in the bathroom so as not to ejaculate too fast with you so he can control himself better and prolong your pleasure. At his age getting another erection almost immediately after orgasm is no problem at all (ah, bygone days!) so maybe that's the answer. If it is, just be understanding and help him along yourself the first time so your mutual pleasure is not interrupted.
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