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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf told me last night he wants to go to the strip club for he's birthday never in my life I would think he would tell me this straight flat out because he knows I'm A jealous freak! So I'm confuse he tells me I want to go to the strip club on my birthday will you go with me I'm like let's go I'll go!!but realy in the back of my mind I wanted to say no then I told hem how about you go with the guys and I go somewhere else not that I mind us goin togther its just that its more of a guy thing I can't dance in a strip club stip club just sit and drink and watch them dance but I would go if you want to go!! Then he's like ok your right we will go to a club!! But its he's birthday and I want to do what he wants I just don't know if goin to a stip club is a good idea and how I would handle it!!!please help!!!ps the truth is I realy wouldn't want hem goin with he's guy friend at all!! I would rather go with hem but I don't know how I would handle that!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 June 2012):
 Men who go to strip clubs with women with them get more attention than single men... the women know that the guy has a girl and they feel safer talking to them and paying attention to them...
it's fun to go to the club with my guy but then I'm not the jealous type and I am bi-sexual so pretty young women are nice to look at...
we go, we have dinner at the one we like... we talk to the women... we have fun.. we've gone as couples and it's a lot of fun....
but then I have no problem with my man getting attention from other women, and no problem with him becoming aroused by others... since our rule is "I don't care where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home"
the fact that he asked you to go with him says he's not up to anything shady...
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