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writes:Dear Cupid,I really like this boy in my year but i don't know if he likes me or not. Whenever i am on msn i talk to him but he doesn't reply. I have'nt done anything wrong, well at least i don't think i have. Why do you thik he's ignoring me? thanks! in love, huddersfield
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reader, trying2help  +, writes (18 October 2008):
Hi:) I think maybe he might not be ready for a relationship. There is a possibility that he is not interested if he is ignoring you, or perhaps some reasonable excuse, in which you should just ask why he is ignoring you. I know it might be a little confronting but if you want to try something really brave...just tell him how you feel. I'm sure he will feel flattered at the compliment of some girl liking him. No matter what his response may be, accept what ever answer you receive. If he is a decent guy, he will be honest with you, and let you know whether he is genuinely interested in having a relationship with you or not. Maybe, he just simply wants to be friends, in which case there would be PLENTY of other guys who you can find to have a relationship with. Your still young, and have plenty of time to find the right person who loves you and appreciates you for who you are, just be patient. Wish you all the best. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): sometimes guys feel a little uncomfortable talking to someone they like but some are the complete opposites so i guess just hagning out would be better and dont talk to him as much
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): maybe he was just busy at that time, theres one girl am intrested in but she thought i was ignoring her cuz i wasnt replying her msgs fast enough, i was watching something on you-tube!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): It doesn't really matter why he is ignoring you. The point is if he doesn't not feel the same way you do. Guys do not ignore girls they are interested in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): I have experienced a similar thing too. There are a number of options. Was he at any point in frequent contact with you? Did you exchange calls, texts? Were your conversations intimate (not sexually but did you feel he could open up to you)? Sometimes men just don't know what to do, fear rejection and end up pushing people they like away from them to avoid the hassle and (potential) heartache. I don't know your full circumstances but there could be a range of explanations, him not being interested just one answer. I think you should just talk to him and ask him outright if he likes you; its tough and often embarrassing but it will short circuit the weeks and/or months of turmoil you'll feel by not knowing one way or the other...GO FOR IT!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 If he is not replying to you then unfortunately I would say he is not interested and you are wasting your time. I would say he knows how you feel about him and if he wanted to get to know you he would reply. Sometimes when we fancy someone it is hard to see what is staring you in the face. You did nothing wrong but he just isnt interested.
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reader, Mickii +, writes (8 March 2007):
The exact same thing happened to me! when someone likes u they tend to ignore u to not seem to forward, u need to talk to him in school, don't try too hard, let him come to u! :D when this happened to me my friend was speaking to him on msn & asked him why he was ignoring me....he said he liked me lol...don't worry about it, be confident and he'll come to u! pleasssse let me know how it goes!
GOOOOOD LUCK! XXXX
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reader, chachacha +, writes (7 March 2007):
If he likes you, he will find a way to talk to you, and if he is ignoring you and not talking to you, I'm afraid you have your answer.
It's not a matter of you doing anything wrong - people just have different preferences for different people - just like some people like some foods and not others.
Have a look around and see if there are any other boys at school who seem like people you might have fun with, and maybe get to know a couple of them, until you find someone you like and who likes you too.
Good luck
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 March 2007):
 When you talk to him om MSN are you sure he knows its you, he could be woundering who the messages are from, which is why you get no reply.
get to know him in school, be chatty and interested in things he does. Then when you feel comfortable ask him if he fancies doing something one weekend.
If he intersted then all is good, but if not then there are plenty more boys out there who would love to go out with you im sure.
Good luck x
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reader, wickedrachel +, writes (7 March 2007):
 maybe he is not ready for a relationship yet, why dont you just ask him face to face that way you will get an answer, if not dig around his friends see what they say, but dont be upset if it is rejection, your only young but the only way to find out is by asking him
take care and let me know how it goes
rachel
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