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writes:Why some man are so unconsidered of someone elses feelings... He stringing me along for over a year, always coming back saying that he wants to try things out, knowing how in love i was, I was always honest about my feelings hoping he would make sure he would not hurt me again, but no, he lied, and lean me on.... he was everything for me, and I think that was the problem, I was never needy or controling, I was always waiting for him to make the first move, kinda thinking that i was giving him space... he would spend time with me every other week, hangout and sex, I loved to spend time with him and i wanted to believe that he was just not ready to get back into a relationship so i decide to let things happen and go with the flow, sometimes he would be all over me, other times he would go back into be cold and distant. So we hangout, i didn't hear from him as often anymore, 2 weeks past by, we only had txt ocassionally, then he ignored me for 2 days... so haha this is weird but, I woke up in the middle of the night, and decide to check my facebook, so there it was, he's picture profile with his new gf ... yeap, two weeks after the last time we saw each other.... He couldn't even tell me what was going on? I didn't deserve and explanation or nothing, I just deserved got ingnored ha! It's been almost a month of that... I feel better, in the deepest of my heart i wish he's happy and finally find the one who can make that happen if it was with me, I loved him with all my heart and I would never be able to explain what I felt everytime I saw him, it was like magic lol, I'm giving someone else a chance to win my heart and I'm willing to give myself a chance to find someone whom appreciates me and love me. I haven't fall for someone that hard in a long time, and just to remember the pain i went thru makes me feel sad... but I think it's important to be able to say goodbye and turn to another page.... hopefully one day I can be totally over it and be happy with the person I deserve to have.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (19 May 2011):
Hi - I think it is good that you got to love and experience that massive emotion - some people never have! And also you still care enough your ex to feel happy (ish) for him even though he's a jerk.Wish you all the best finding a decent man - they do exist!
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Sounds like you picked up a jerk. There are a bunch of them out there. Sadly you have to weed through the bad ones to find the guy that will want to be with you. Unfortunately, that's the world of dating.
My guess was that he was stringing you along because he was on the fence about whether he liked you or not, and he was enjoying the sex until something better came along.
Hang in there, life does get better and eventually when Mr Right comes along, you'll appreciate your new guy even more. Just be ready for him to make his appearance and be patient...
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): HiIt's not MEN it is simply people, some are worth while and some are a waste of time.spunky monkey
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