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writes:Can someone please explain to me if I'm over reacting here. I have been cool with my husbands female friends and just recently I've had enough. When he talks about them he said they were cool, two of them she said they were "one of the guys cool". They went to high school together my husband is 5 years older than me so all there women are older and more mature than me, I don't understand why they IGNORE me? every time they call to talk to him....he told me to answer it they hang up on me, they call back after 30 minutes or so and if I answer the phone again they hang up on me again, few seconds later I saw text on his cell "call me back please :)" . I don't understand why they dislike me? they don't know anything about me...instead they just shuts me off, I told my husband they hate me but he said NOOOOO they are cool I want you to meet them someday. I am running out of patients here I've had enough of this bullcrap....it makes me really angry cause when he talked about them they seems cool and interesting BUT they act like snakes...sneaky...anyone out there deal with this before....soon I'm going to let his choose sides, me and our 3 kids or these unfriendly bitches
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 I put would.. 3. Honestly, I would want to be "friends" with those cows.
should have been WOULDN'T lol
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 It's strange to me that you two are married with kids and you've never met these friends. Strange indeed.
If they're calling your home and hanging up when you answer, they're immature. They've never met you, and they can't muster up the guts to say "can I speak with so-and-so, please?"
At this point does it really matter if they like you or not? If they're prone to doing this sort of thing, what kind of people are they, really?
Tell your husband exactly what you're telling us here. That you're sick of dealing with this, and that he should either bring them around so you can meet them, or get rid of them. He really shouldn't be entertaining friendships with people who show no respect for you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 July 2012):
I would:
1. stop answering the phone when they call.
2. Talk to your husband, tell him how it makes you feel.
3. Honestly, I would want to be "friends" with those cows.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 July 2012):
 Hi
If your the mother of his children and have been together years, they should respect that and you.
They behave like silly children. Talk to your husband and let him know exactly how fed up you are. No idle threats though or you will be a doormat for him forever. If you say you are going,go.I dont think he can see how they really are, or he just doesn't care.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (10 July 2012):
 The phone for your husband but if you answer they hang up? And they haven't met you yet? You and he have been together long enough to have three kids?
That's just downright rude, and they don't sound very mature to me.
Try talking to him again, maybe even think about hanging up on them before they can hang up on you, but talk to him, tell him you are running out of patience, and you want some sort of resolution. If it really is bad enough that you are considering walking, let him know that as well.
Don't threaten to take the kids and leave unless you are prepared to go through with it, because if you say you will, and then don't he will know it won't matter what he does, and nothing will change.
good luck!
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