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writes: It seems I want to have sex with many of my friends wives, my coworkers, my sister inlaw, my wifes best friend, even women who are just friends of mine are on my list. It seems just about every woman I know faily well, I want to have sex with. I have yet to ask any of them knowing that this isn't right, but its not going to stop me if and when the opportunity comes my way. I don't have the nerve to approch them, but if they asked me I would oblige them happily. I have no idea why I feel like I want sex from so many other women. What strikes me is its desire for the women I know. I would rather be with my wife's best friend or a coworker then some super hot woman I don't know. Whats up with this?
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (23 September 2007):
My first concern here is for your wife - does she know about these feelings you have for some of her relatives?
There is a reason that you are attracted to people you know as opposed to supermodels and it is a simple one if you really think about it.
Supermodels are nothing more than pictures in the newspaper and pictures on the T.V. the people you know are real people and a relationship with these people is somewhat more achievable than it would be with the latest centre-fold.
Anyway - I could understand you not liking the super models - they all seem to be anorexic airheads that use tons of make-up to achieve a natural look to compensate for their ugliness. Supermodels do nothing for me either and in my opinion have nothing when compared to the looks of many people I know around me.
The only differance I have from you is that I don't think about bedding them all of the time. To a bloke any woman that comes onto them seems more attractive than women who keep a distance. The fact they come towards you like that in that predatory way makes them attractive in your eye.
I come back to the fact that the reason you are attracted to the ladies you mention is because you believe that the possibility of having sex with them is not completely beyond the reals of possibility where it is with the models.
It is your wife I feel sorry for though and maybe your wife who could benefit from the help available on here more so than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Well, hello and your just the sort of man who most of the tear filled posting are all about. Who do you think you are?? Your comment about your desires to cheat on your wife with friends and family are quite frankly sickening.
I personally think that you are sick. You stuffed in the head to have these thoughts and your at an age where you should definately know better. Are you feeling that your manhood is in question?? Low self esteem? Got baggage about women? You need to get some professional help as people don't think like you unless there is something fundementally wrong with there thought processess. I also whould be surprised if any of the women you are up for find you at all attractive and worth lowering there standards for someone like you. Sounds like your having a mid-life crisis and your not finding yourself attractive and manly. Your problem not theirs. Grow up sir and be a real man and think about your thoughts honestly and see how pathetic they are!
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