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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months, and our relationship was great up until recently. I've become atached to her, I want her to be around all the time, and I'm always wanting sex. I can't seem to look at her and not think about sex. Its to the point that everytime we have sex its great but within a few hours, i want it again, and I end up having to masterbate 2-3 times a day just to get my mind off of it. I feel like this is going to ruin our relationship, and i'm wondering, is there anything i can do to help this? Reply to this Question
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (3 September 2009):
 Well you're still young. Try not to burn it all out fast.
Seriously at your age I was so pre-occupied with sex, it was frustrating. I couldn't drive a car, go to the beach or ride a bus without someone noticing it.
Baggy pants were in. Really baggy.
Here's the key. Try and focus on spending your time with her in other areas that require brain thinking. Board games and the like help distract the sex drive. The more you have to think about other things, the more you can conserve your energy for the sex later.
Other than that, there's not much you can do about it for now. It will subside about age 18 or 19 and you'll be down to "normal" levels.
The worse part about this is when you get on in years, the will is there but the horniness isn't. Its a shame it doesn't even out over time instead of being hyper-loaded on the front end the way it is now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): Yeah, I agree with the other answerer, you are a young virile man, your testosternone level is as high as a hippy on the final day of an open air rock concert. You are normal, you are human.
And if she's up for it, you are a very lucky man indeed.
Enjoy yourself.x
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reader, Zaph +, writes (3 September 2009):
hey man, its no big deal every guy goes through that when they are younger, didnt anyone teach ya this in school? Alls you gotta do to get your mind offa it is do something socially maybe with a couple guy friends cause lets face it, with your buddys there...cant really get horny, or play some sports get active, you can jerk it all you want but have some restraint man, your talking like your on crack or something we all know sex feels good, but you know what feels better? making love, find a girl who you love deeply and it feels so much better, so if you want sex, try getting your girl into the mood first, there not like us they dont turn on like light switches, be romantic be smooth be smart also and use a condom, nothing shatters your teen life like a baby popping in to stay for about 20 years or so.
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reader, AlexCM  +, writes (3 September 2009):
this is due to your hormones.
at your age its very very common. eventually these feeling should become a little less frequent. although be careful not to pressurise your girlfriend into sex as that may infact ruin your relationship!
try to take your mind off of sex and do some fun things with your girl friend, maybe watch a film or go out for a meal. ect
hope all goes well sweets xx
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