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writes:Why is it that I push my boyfriend away when he is near me, and then when he goes (we live far apart) I start missing him and loving him more and wishing he was here? Am I just afraid? I've only been in abusive relationships and he is the first nice guy I have dated. Reply to this Question
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You might be pushing him away because you are afraid to get closer to him only to have a drastic low when you leave from your visit. I know from experience that pushing them away doesn't help. Try to be more open, it hurts when you have to leave, but knowing that the time you spend was meaningful, makes it all the better.
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