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writes:I've been apart from my ex girlfriend for a long time now. Nearly a year. But it still doesn't take much for my mind to wander back to her. I was driving today, and while I'm sat in the car with nobody to talk to, and only the radio to listen to my mind tends to trail off and just remember things. I started think about the most random incidences that occurred while we were together. I thought about one of her birthdays where I got her a game, and I began thinking "Does she think of me when she plays that game". Same when I thought about when we'd watch a TV show together: If she watches that show, does it remind me of her.I've been suffering for a while, where everything reminds me of her. Sometimes even things that are more relevant to myself still make me think of her. That game for example. It was a game I had and really liked and I introduced it to her... Now I can't help but think of her when I play it. Surely it should be the other way around?Please give any advice you can. Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi hun, I think it's nice that you have these happy memories of her. But at the end of the day, that's all they are - memories. People come in and out of your life for a reason, whatever that might be, be happy that you have taken something pleasant away from it. I have a particular ex that I was quite serious with, a lot of things remind me of him, and it cheers me up to think of the good times. Nothing wrong with remembering happy times. Best of luck for the future xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): I have this same problem- I dumped her because she has MANY problems, but I am always finding I miss her.
You have to come to realize why you left her, or why you broke up.
Also, get a new girlfriend ;-)
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reader, AskEve +, writes (20 February 2008):
 You don't say how you and her split up but you are obviously still very fond of her. You have a history together and it's natural that you will think of her from time to time, especially when you see something that reminds you of her.
When did you last speak to her? Are you still in touch? What is she doing just now, is she with anyone else? She might be thinking of you too... Depending how you broke up there wouldn't be anything wrong in sending her an email to say it's been almost a year and she came into your mind, how is she doing etc etc. You have nothing to lose by doing that and if there's still anything there then emailing her might put a spark to it again.
~Eve~
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reader, LouLee +, writes (20 February 2008):
 Aww, sounds like you're in the same situation as me, i always think of my boyfriend when it comes to our favourite tv programme etc. It's annoying huh?!Maybe you just crave to have a girlfriend again..but not necessarily her. x
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reader, Raining Tears  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 well obvioulsy ur in 1st love....... it probaly won't make any sense but 1st love is when you can't stop thinking about them..... 2nd love is when you keep trying to call to get back with them..... 3rd love is when you send her flowers in school..... 4th is when you go up to them and kiss them without a care when or where you're at and finally 5th love is when you hold them close tell them i love u..... do the thing in bed.......... get married and have kids...but I would have to say ur in 1st love
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