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writes:I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because of what happened 2 my sister wen she was younger? (when she was 2-4 she was sexualy abused by our godfarther)It all started Saturday night just gone we had a house party this boy called Ryan got drunk and asked me out (he was stopping the night at ours), he asked me out I said no because he would have forgoten by the next day and because I am only 12. He said he wouldn't forget so I said yes He didn't forget and now I'm scared he is going to tell my mum that we are together and what happened that Saturday night, what should I do please help (I can't tell my dad, he knows Ryan and would kick 10 bells of crap out of him and I don't want that 2 happen coz I want 2 be with him). I've fancied this guy since I was about 6 so I've known him nearly 7 years, it's not like I jumped in without knowing him, he is a decent guy now, he used to smoke and take cannabis now he doesn't, should I wait a little while or not help please
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reader, hello1 +, writes (20 February 2008):
 I'm sure you asked this yesterday...I answer again anyway! This guy is too old for you, he shouldn't be intrested in a 12yr old girl. I wouldn't blame your dad for beating him up, sounds like this guy needs a beating. He's not getting what he wants from girls his age so going for the younger, naive girl to get what he wants.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (20 February 2008):
 i think you should wait a little while till your a bit more mature..i know its an overly used phrase but maybe the hormones are playing around... its legal but i would recommend waiting a little while
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reader, LouLee +, writes (20 February 2008):
 Don't be scared that he's going to tell you're mum because chances are he isn't as your dad will knock 10 bells of crap out of him.You say 'what happened that Saturday night'? What did actually happen? Sex? Played around?Depending on what it is, is depending on whether it's legal or not.. in my opinion i think he is saying you can never try anything new is the way he's craftily making you feel guilty about not doing stuff with him.Remember you dont have to do a single word he says! x
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