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writes:I always thought I would bleed when I first had sex and that it would be painful...but I didnt bleed at all and there was barely any pain at all. I always imagined it to be this horrible feeling and stuff, but it didnt hurt much at all. After my first two times, there was NO pain at all and was able to enjoy it.Why is this so? Why do i always hear sooo many girls/women complaining about their first times? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): hey i experienced the same thing. I thought that caus ei didnt bleed i perhaps didnt do it properly bt i guess we are the lucky ones
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): I had no pain at all my first time and no bleeding. Just lucky, I guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys...
and im not complaining :) just confused as to why i was so different to the majority.
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reader, penta  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 It didn't hurt for me either. A little uncomfortable and certainly no fireworks, but no pain and no blood. All women are different.
It could do with your physiology, or it could be that your first lover took his time to make sure everything was okay, or a nice combination.
I'm a little confused why you would complain at the absence of pain... Just be glad your first time went well.
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reader, 88jane  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 For me it did really hurt but some of my friends felt no pain! its just the way it goes...consider yourself lucky and continue to have a good sex life!!
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reader, pink_fairy22 +, writes (2 September 2007):
 It sometimes depends on a few things especially how relaxed you are and if you do foreplay before. Some women experience a lot of pain some none at all.
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reader, cho +, writes (2 September 2007):
 same thing happened to me.. there are several reasons..firstly that some women are not born with the tissue that is meant to be ripped after having something shoved into ur pussy! therefore no rip, no bleeding, and no pain. Another reason could be fingering.. maybe by mistake without realizing, you, or whomever has fingered you, tore it. Another reason could be that your pussy is wide and the person with whom u had sex for the frst time doesnt have a big penis. therefore, no tearing. Personally, i think its because you werent born with the tissue thats meant to be ripped. but these other factors could be other possibilities!!You could go to a doctor and ask him/her for yourself. Let me know what happens! Hope i could help!! take care xxx
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reader, cho +, writes (2 September 2007):
same thing happened to me.. there are several reasons..
firstly that some women are not born with the tissue that is meant to be ripped after having something shoved into ur pussy! therefore no rip, no bleeding, and no pain.
Another reason could be fingering.. maybe by mistake without realizing, u, or whomever has fingered u, tore it.
Another reason could be that your pussy is wide and the person with whom u had sex for the frst time doesnt have a big penis. therefore, no tearing. Personally, i think its because u werent born with the tissue thats meant to be ripped. but these other factors could be other possibilities!!
You could go to a doctor and ask him/her for yourself. Let me know what happens! Hope i could help!!
take care xxx
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reader, cho +, writes (2 September 2007):
same thing happened to me.. there are several reasons..firstly that some women are not born with the tissue that is meant to be ripped after having something shoved into you! therefore no rip, no bleeding, and no pain. Another reason could be fingering.. maybe by mistake without realizing, u, or whomever has fingered u, tore it. Another reason could be that your vagina is wide and the person with whom u had sex for the frst time doesnt have a big penis. therefore, no tearing. Personally, i think its because u werent born with the tissue thats meant to be ripped. but these other factors could be other possibilities!!You could go to a doctor and ask him/her for yourself. Let me know what happens! Hope i could help!! take care xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Because it hurt for them, but it didn't hurt for you. Some women don't feel any pain at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): errr because it can be a bit painful for the MAJORITY of girls, obviously not all
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reader, carchick +, writes (2 September 2007):
 well most girls and women do have pain when they have sex but they may want to think of somthink else they like
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