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writes:I would like to add this girl on snapchat but she doesn't know me. I went to middle school and high school with her (She's a college freshman and I'm a highschool senior). We didn't talk at all, and I'm pretty sure she didn't even know I existed. But I kind of check her Twitter page and what not. I want to add her on snapchat, and I was wondering if that would be a good thing to do? My snapchat isn't public, like I don't advertise it nor post a lot on it. I just watch people stories. Would that be creepy? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 May 2016):
 You are better just asking her straight out would she like to hang out next time she is home, following her to a place she has posted she is at, is borderline stalking and not a good way to go around things. If you want to get to know her, then talk to her properly.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (6 May 2016):
 No, you are right. It does sound a bit borderline creepy. You have to look seriously at what you want, and can reasonably expect, to achieve.
Different city, different school, different set of friends... You need a more straightforward approach and a bit of honesty. Girls appreciate that.
You can say that she has caught your attention and you would really like to have a coffee together when she is back in town. She might be flattered and accept. How good would that be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy intentions aren't to ask her out through snapchat or anything. It's just that she goes to school in another city and I thought that maybe if I add her then I can see when she comes back and if she goes out anywhere and go there too? It sounds really creepy but that's probably the only way I can meet her.
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reader, p.d632 +, writes (5 May 2016):
If her social media accounts are public and she has a lot of followers, I don't think it would be a problem to add her. But, having been in similar situations, I would caution against just "stalking" her Twitter/snapchat/etc... because you might begin to feel an attachment to her that isn't really there. Know what I mean?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 May 2016):
Why do you want to add her? Why do you look at her twitter? Do you want to be friends? Meet her? Date her? I am unsure what you are wanting here. If you want to try and get to know her then yeah am sure you can add her and try talking to her.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (5 May 2016):
Come out of your virtual world. The weather is fine. Who really cares about Snapchat? Anyway what is the point of adding this girl? What will it achieve? If you want to ask her out do something a bit more real.
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