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writes: my b/f wants to go on a bike week with friends which i am uneasy about b/c i have seen pictures of what goes on..the sturgis bike week is what i am worried about and hope he does not go to that one..he also wants to go camping completely alone without any friends or anyone for a few days or a week..i am worried what if he lies about camping and go to sturgis bike rally and not tell...if his camping trip falls on the same week as that rally, i should be a little suspicious then right? Reply to this Question
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reader, bikerpals  +, writes (27 March 2007):
I completely agree with the advice from SHANDY. You love your B/F who is a biker. I am not sure if you know biker?
Attending sturgis bike week is the lifestyle of bikers instead of the high speed chase at stake. I understand what you worry about. Why not ask him to ride out with friends? I am a member of BikerPals.com. I have many riding buddies there. Why not ask your BF to join some rideing clube?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): If you cannot trust your bloke then you haven't got a relationship have you? You need to have a long chat with him and let him know exactly how you feel. Why don't you offer to go with him? It could be fun for the two of you. Couples need to be flexible and work around each other as well as with each other. Talk to him.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): It seems to me your bf will go to the Sturgis rally and/or camping, whether you want him to go or not. There is not a lot you can do to convince him otherwise. Of course, he could ask or maybe you can suggest that you to hop on the back and go with him. Why don't you tell him you have a hankering to see a bit of South Dakota and tell him you want to go along for the ride. Gage his response to that suggestion. If it's not possible for you for you to go then you have no choice but to accept this. Hun, he likely liked motorcycles when you met him. This what you signed up for. Instead of worrying about what he's going to be doing or not doing, on this bike trip, why not sit down and just tell him how you feel My whole point is, couples need to be respectful and negotiate a lot, in a relationship. And there is absolutely nothing you can do if he wants to go...all you can do is 'trust him!' And if you can't trust him then I have to ask, why on earth are you wasting your love and affections on a guy you can't trust? Talk to him and work this out. Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (20 March 2007):
 If your boyfriend wants to be unfaithful (if that's what you're concerned about), he'll be unfaithful, no matter where he goes. If you don't trust him, that's an issue you need to work out with him.
Has he asked you to join him on his big adventure? If not, why not? Would you go if he asked you?
Good luck!
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