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writes:this is so weird but a guy ive only worked with a couple of days we are talking like best buddieswe get on extremely well and spend all day laughing and joking but get the work done. im feeling something for him and i dont know why. hes new but i feel protective of him. he told me his wife left him august after 10 years but he has 2 little ones with her and 2 teenagers from a previous relationship. he told me the other day a girl in another secion gave him her number and they've already had a weekend away together! im strangely gutted and i cant understand why.we've had loads of breaks together and he talks to me at ease but i can sense hes emotionally fragile so god knows why but i fear for him. i came out of a terrible realtionship 7 months ago and my ex left me in a horrendous financial mess.i dont understand what these feelings are i have whats going on help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): thanx sweeties xxx
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 I agree totally with caring guy. You've had a rough time so any positive attention you recieve will be welcome...we all need a boost. You seem like a caring person and someone like this bloke who has had a lot of drama...well he's going to be looking for a sympathetic ear and some kind words.
His history tells a quite different story, so try to focus on that when your being social with him. If your previous relationship left you in a mess, you seriously need to be selective about who you get involved with next time. Be flattered by all means, but let him know, on a relationship level...your going for good honest quality!!!
Im sure your worth it!!!
Best of luck to you...
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 November 2009):
I think you feel more like a mother to him, because he's been through a hard time. But if you take away emotion and look at facts, you see that although this man might appear great, and I'm sure he is a good friend, he isn't such a good bet for a boyfriend. He has 4 children from two relationships, and within a few weeks of being at work he has been given someone's number and gone away on a weekend. I would say enjoy bveing friends with him, but be very careful, because as boyfriend material he doesn't sound that great, and you're in enough trouble thanks to your ex without another guy who may not be reliable. Stay friends with him.
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