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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ive known this guy for a long time and have only recently got to know him well and see him for who he is. We have a great laugh and have become closer than we were before. He is older than me and has a girlfriend who he has been dating for a long time. Although I've got to know him and realised that he isn't a jackass (which is what I thought of him before) and I like him as a friend but not in any other way. But the thing I dont understand is if I don't fancy him than why do I feel so jealous and bitter when he is around his girlfriend ?
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Your jealousy and bitterness could stem from the fact that he shares similar good times with his girlfriend and you feel a bit marginalized.
It is a competition over someone's time and not neccessarily someone's heart.
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